Saturday, December 8, 2012


Looking for a Special Gift?



Let C&S help you put a smile on your loved one's face this holiday season!
Senior Concerierge Services at C&S provide personalized assistance to meet the interests and needs of your loved one. What makes us unique is that our services are specifically designed and performed for seniors.
 
We are not "one size fits all". Our packages are customized for your loved one and services are provided by professionally trained caregivers who can assist those with physical or mental limitations. Need a hand with a wheelchair or walker? No problem!  What about help getting into and out of the bathroom? Again, no problem!  Our goal is to help your loved one be as independent and active as possible.
 
Here are a few examples of the services we provide:
  • Travel companionship on social and cultural outings to plays, concerts or museums
  • Money management and bill paying
  • Errand and shopping services either with or for client
  • Arranging for home services such as maintenance and repairs or yard work
  • Basic home office assistance including bill paying, organization and filing
  • Event or holiday planning
  • Technical support with cell phones, computers and internet
  • Moving services including downsizing, move coordination and set up in new home or facility
Gifts certificates are available. Call us at 281-550-8444 and let us help you make this holiday special!

Monday, December 3, 2012

Holiday Blues - Depression in the Elderly

 
The holiday season is quickly coming upon us. If you are a caregiver for an elderly loved one, you may notice a change in your loved one's mood as the holidays approach. Perhaps you are one of many, who visit elderly parents and family during the holidays who live a distance away. When you visit you may notice that loved ones are not as physically active, or they show symptoms of fatigue or sadness and have no interest in the holiday or in their surroundings.

According to the National Institutes of Health; of the 35 million Americans age 65 or older, about 2 million suffer from full-blown depression. Another 5 million suffer from less severe forms of the illness. This represents about 20% of the senior population -- a significant proportion.

Depression in the elderly is difficult to diagnose and is frequently untreated. The symptoms may be confused with a medical illness, dementia, or malnutrition due to a poor diet. Many older people will not accept the idea that they have depression and refuse to seek treatment.

What causes depression in the elderly?
It is not the actual holiday that causes depression, but the fact that holidays tend to bring memories of earlier, perhaps happier times. Additional contributing factors that bring on depression may be the loss of a spouse or close friend, or a move from a home to assisted living, or a change with an older person's routine.

Depression may also be a sign of a medical problem. Chronic pain or complications of an illness or memory loss can also cause depression. In addition, diet can also be a factor when proper nutrition and vitamins are lacking.

As an example, Selma’s husband passed away, a few months before Christmas. Her family lived close by and would call or drop in often to check on her. Selma seemed a little preoccupied and tired, but this was to be expected as she had been the caregiver for her husband for many years. It wasn’t until the family noticed that her holiday decorations were not out and her yearly routine of Christmas card writing was not happening that they began questioning her mental and physical well being.

A trip to her physician confirmed depression, caused by not only the loss of her spouse, but a vitamin B12 deficiency. There were both mental and physical reasons for her depression.

Symptoms to look for in depression might include:

·         Depressed or irritable mood
·         Feelings of worthlessness or sadness
·         Expressions of helplessness
·         Anxiety
·         Loss of interest in daily activities
·         Loss of appetite
·         Weight loss
·         Lack of attending to personal care and hygiene
·         Fatigue
·         Difficulty concentrating
·         Irresponsible behavior
·         Obsessive thoughts about death
·         Talk about suicide

How do you know if it is depression or dementia?
Depression and dementia share similar symptoms. A recent article on Helpguide.org gives some specific differences:

In depression there is a rapid mental decline, but memory of time, date and awareness of the environment remains. Motor skills are slow, but normal in depression. Concern with concentrating and worry about impaired memory may occur.

On the other hand, dementia symptoms reveal a slow mental decline with confusion and loss of recognizing familiar locations. Writing, speaking and motor skills are impaired and memory loss is not acknowledged as a being problem by the person suffering dementia.

Whether it is depression or dementia, prompt treatment is recommended. A physical exam will help determine if there is a medical cause for depression. A geriatric medical practitioner is skilled in diagnosing depression and illnesses in the elderly. If you are a care taker of an elderly person it may be beneficial for you to seek out a geriatric health care specialist. For more information on senior health services go to http://www.longtermcarelink.net/about_senior_health_services.htm

Treating depression in older people.
Once the cause of depression is identified, a treatment program can be implemented. Treatment may be as simple as relieving loneliness through visitations, outings and involvement in family activities. In more severe cases antidepressant drugs have been known to improve the quality of life in depressed elderly people. Cognitive therapy sessions with a counselor may also be effective.

As a care giver or family member of a depressed older person, make it your responsibility to get involved. The elder person generally denies any problems or may fear being mentally ill. You can make the difference in and remove the Holiday Blues from seniors suffering from depression.

The Geriatric Mental Health Foundation offers a “Depression Tool Kit.” To read more about the tool kit and depression in the elderly go to http://www.gmhfonline.org/gmhf/consumer/depression_toolkit.html

To find a Senior Health Care Services in your area on the National Care Planning Council website go to http://www.longtermcarelink.net/a7seniorshealthservices.htm

The National Care Planning Council supports the work of geriatric practitioners and their services to the growing senior population. If you are a geriatric practitioner and would like to list your services with the NCPC please call 800-989-8137.

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

Technology and Aging: Adventures with an iPad - Week 7

Technology and Aging:  Adventures with an iPad
Week 7:  Flow Free

True confession time…between my iPhone and my iPad I have well over 100 apps!!!  I can afford to do this because most of them are / were free.  I'm always looking for new games or activities that might be of interest to my clients, or so I tell myself as I spend hours "test driving" them to see who might benefit and how.  I'm amazed at the variety and quality (or sometimes the lack thereof) of the apps that are available and find myself frequently repeating the phrase "I'll bet there's an app for that!" before hunting one down.

One of my new favorites is Flow Free.  I feel like this gives me a glimpse into the lives of all the engineers in my family (in fact my son is currently working as a piping engineer…stick with me and you'll see why that's relevant) and it doesn't hurt that it's fun too!

Just as an aside, I found this app by searching the "Top Charts" in the App Store.  I enjoy stopping by periodically to see what the latest and greatest apps are…check it out if you haven't lately, who knows what you may find?!

Now, back to the app itself.  The goal of Flow Free is to "connect matching colors with pipe to create a flow".  Sounds easy, right?  And it is…at first.  In the beginning, there are 5 different colors on a 5x5 grid.   But as you improve, the games become more challenging by adding more colors, more squares and more complex patterns.  There have been times when I've been tempted to call my piping engineer son for clues!  (And just so you know, there's an app for that…not for calling my son but for getting "cheats" to solve the piping puzzles…crazy, right?!...an app for an app!)  The game has been great for my clients on several different levels, which I always think is a bonus. 

First, it requires fine motor skills as you use your finger to draw a line between the dots.  Then there's the mental part…looking at the grid and "seeing" how the water will flow.  No two pipes can cross over and all the squares must be filled.  Try it for yourself…it's addictive!  And that's another plus, you're exercising your brain AND having fun too!!! 

With over 750 FREE games at multiple levels, Flow Free can keep you and your clients entertained and challenged for a long time!  There's also a Time Trial version in which you solve as many games as possible in a set amount of time. 

Just remember...I told you this game is addictive.  So don't go blaming me for the hours you lose…you've been warned!
Now enjoy!


Chris Hicks, C&S Care Manager
C&S Care Management, Inc.
chicks@cs-care.com
Office: 281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, TX  77095



Friday, October 26, 2012

Technology and Aging: Adventures with an iPad - Week 6

Technology and Aging:  Adventures with an iPad
Week 6:  Memory Block

How many of you remember the game Simon?  The original Milton Bradley electronic version came out in 1978.  You can now buy this "vintage" (a fancy way of saying old so you can charge more) game on eBay which is just what I did several years ago.  I was working with a gentleman who'd had a stroke and I thought (hoped) this might be something he could do with limited use of his hands.  Unfortunately the large buttons were too hard for him to press so I tried one of the newer portable versions but the buttons were too small (I was starting to feel like Goldilocks).  In the end, another good idea bit the dust.

Sadly, my client passed away before the advent of the iPad.  I think of him often and wish I'd been able to expand his world with the incredible apps available.

One game in particular that I think he would have enjoyed is Memory Block.   Similar to Simon, Memory Block has a ring with 4 or 5 different colored buttons (you can adjust the number), each with its own sound.  The iPad lights a button and plays the tone.  Then it’s your turn.  If the correct button is pressed, a second one is added to the sequence and so on until a mistake is made.  Then it’s back to the beginning.  Strange but true…I find that “singing” the tune helps me remember the sequence.  However you do it, this is a simple, fun way to exercise your brain and you know the saying…use it or lose it! 


In memory mode, speed doesn’t matter making it perfect for those with slower motor responses.  And you can even adjust the rate at which the sequence is presented to allow more or less time for processing.

In speed mode, the color is called out while the color word flashes on the screen.  Rather than remembering a sequence, you must press the correctly colored button within a given time in order to advance.  After every 10 correct responses, the speed picks up and after 30 correct responses, a new challenge is added (I’m not going to tell…you’ll have to try it and see for yourself!).  There may be other surprises as well but (true confessions) my clients and I have never made it past 39!

And just so you know…this blogging thing is harder than it seems.  So instead of weekly Adventures, I’ll be posting occasionally, whenever inspiration strikes.  
Chris Hicks, C&S Care Manager
C&S Care Management, Inc.
Office:  281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, Texas  77095

Tuesday, September 18, 2012

Technology and Aging: Adventures with an iPad - Week 5

Technology and Aging:  Adventures with an iPad
Week 5:  iPad stylus

Well, I’ve found that as a geriatric care manager, I can’t just turn it off when I’m talking to my aunt who happens to be 81.  I know, I know…she’s not my client.  But still…
Her wonderful children gave her an iPad for Christmas.  The year before, they gave her a laptop.   The laptop is no longer with her.  In fact, the laptop is no longer a member of the family at all.  After several weeks of trying, it was returned, saving it from certain death as my aunt threatened to throw it out the window!
Now my aunt isn’t a violent person but that computer got the best of her.  But fortunately my cousins don’t give up easily.  And so my aunt got an iPad for Christmas.  And SHE LOVES IT!  Yes, there are times she threatens to throw it out the window too, but for the most part, she and the iPad are getting along just fine.
Here are some of the things she uses it for:
·         Emailing family and friends (she hasn’t really mastered spell check but for the most part, we can get the gist of it)
·         Checking her Facebook account to see pictures of those same people as they go off to school, train wiener dogs, and travel the globe
·         Making hotel reservations on Travelocity (she just calls it Travel, the “ocity” is too much for her)
·         Looking for a replacement jacket for her son and winding up on eBay
·         And best of all, forwarding a video of that same son as he practices adaptive rowing on the river!
Let me share a pointer that I gave my aunt (this is a double entendre as you’ll soon see).  She complained mightily about having “fat fingers” (which she doesn’t) and being unable to touch the right places on the screen.  Enter the pointer, aka stylus.  As you may know, only certain things (like fingers) will work on the touch screen.  You can’t wear gloves or poke at it with a pen, it won’t work.  But what if, like my aunt, you feel like your fingers are just too fat for the small targets on the screen? 
I’d recommend trying a stylus designed specifically for touch screens.  About the size of a small ball point pen, it has a special tip that activates the touch screen, just like your finger would, only the stylus tip isn’t fat, like you think your finger is, or at least my aunt thinks hers is.  As I was writing this, I went online to Amazon and ordered a pack of 6 to be shipped directly to my aunt because you see, the only problem she has with the stylus is that it is never where she and the iPad are.  Maybe with 6 (in a variety of bright colors) she’ll be able to find one when she needs it.  If not, at least they’ll look pretty scattered around her house.

Note:  these aren’t actually my aunt’s fingers nor are they "fat" but I love this picture (taken with my iPhone) and wanted a chance to share it!
Chris Hicks, C&S Care Manager
C&S Care Management, Inc.
Office:  281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, Texas  77095

Tuesday, September 11, 2012

Technology and Aging: Adventures with an iPad - Week 4

Technology and Aging:  Adventures with an iPad
Week 4:  Pandora & Holiday Bells
Music…that’s what I’m thinking about today.  Playing, listening, singing along…music is fun.  Or at least it can be if it’s music you like.  I mean lots of the “music” I hear doesn’t really sound that great to me.  I got in my car the other day and instantly realized I was not the last person to have driven my Prius.  What was that noise?!  Who listens to that stuff anyway?!  I’m not going to say what it was because I don’t want to insult or alienate anyone who might possibly have found their way to this blog (thanks, by the way). 

Anyway, the iPad makes it possible for anyone / everyone to find something to listen to.  I’m guessing many of you already know about the Pandora app.  But how many of you have a Maria Callas station (opera for one of my little ladies), a Mitch Miller Radio station (she loved to Sing Along with Mitch and, in fact, we’d often draw a crowd at the facility when Mitch was on), a Disney Radio station (okay, that one’s not for my seniors but I have some young children in my life too) and more?  It’s an eclectic assortment.  My kids think I’m kind of strange but then most kids wonder about their parents from time to time, don’t they?  Pandora’s nice because you can have it playing in the background while you are doing something else on your iPad…a great alternative to much of the “music” that goes along with other apps.  Just go to options on those other apps and turn off the sound.  If I can do it, trust me, you can too.
But what if you want to make your own music?  You’ve got to try the Holiday Bells app!  I’m writing this in September and it’s still hot here in Houston (although not quite as hot as it has been), so playing Jingle Bells seems a bit crazy but you know what?  I think I’m feeling a little cooler just imagining “dashing through the snow”. 
Anyway, Holiday Bells is like karaoke without singing.  The words (and a little snowflake) show you which bell to “ring” by tapping.  Some of my clients were able to follow along.  Others enjoyed the other options…touching a single handbell to hear it chime (you can change the note it plays too).  You can even shake the iPad to make the jingle bells ring (I actually found this was easier for my clients to do with my iPhone…the iPad is a little too big and a lot too expensive to risk dropping).
There are many piano apps too although I haven’t played them (LOL) because none of my clients have been interested.  Let me know if you have a favorite.
Chris Hicks, C&S Care Manager
C&S Care Management, Inc.
Office:  281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, Texas  77095

Tuesday, September 4, 2012

Technology and Aging: Adventures with an iPad - Week 3

Technology and Aging:  Adventures with an iPad 3
Week 3:  iPad camera & Doodle Buddy

This may not come as a surprise to you if you’ve actually read my first two posts but I’m not an iPad expert.  My son, who is currently working in Newfoundland (pronounced like understand in case you were wondering), comes home from time to time and teaches me cool new tricks.  I’m always impressed and vow to use each one forever and ever then promptly forget not just how to do it but what “it” even was.  Oh, well…
What I will share with you are apps that make me and my clients happy.  Some are “educational”, some are just for fun.  Some are “therapy” and others are silly.  All have been “tested” with my clients and proven to be successful for one reason or another.  Rather than give you a laundry list of apps, I’m going to tell you stories of how my clients and I have used the apps then you can decide which you want to explore further.  I’ll include a screen shot or two (just because my husband showed me how to do it again and maybe if I use it every week, I’ll remember.  If the screen shots quit appearing, you’ll know I forgot…either that I was going to include them or how to do it.)
Today I thought we’d talk about doctors…and waiting.  Have you ever had an appointment for say 10 o’clock and checked your watch every 5 minutes wondering if you would EVER get in?  I have.  It’s hard enough when you’re by yourself but when you have a client with dementia with you, the waiting can be even more challenging.  What to do, what to do, what to do…
Thank goodness I had my iPad with me.  We arrived on time for the doctor’s first appointment of the day.  The lights weren’t even on in the waiting room.  This was going to be a snap.  He couldn’t possibly be behind yet.  We’d be in and out in no time.  But wait.  And that’s what we did.  After 15 minutes of chatting (and waiting) I pulled out my iPad.  I clicked a picture of my client with my iPad camera and showed it to her.  She smiled (both for the photo and after, when she saw it) and asked, “Where’d you get a picture of my mother?”  And you know what?  It did look like her mother!  We reminisced about her family for a while…and waited.
 Looking for something interactive for us to do, I pulled up the Doodle Buddy app.  It’s just as it says…your own personal buddy to doodle with.  We played tic tac toe, drew pictures (sad faces because we’d been waiting so long) and she wrote her name (which I won’t show you because as a geriatric care manager, I take confidentiality very seriously).  Anyway, thanks to Doodle Buddy, time didn’t fly but it did pass and eventually we saw the doctor and left without tearing out all our hair (hers is the most beautiful white you’ve ever seen).  Moral of the story, never go to the doctor without a buddy!  

It’s hard to see in this Doodle Buddy screen shot but there are lots of fun things you can do with this app.  You can change colors, mediums (glitter might be cool!), shapes, etc.  Let it bring out your inner child!
P.S.  I happen to have the free version but for $0.99 you can hide the ads.  
Chris Hicks, C&S Care Manager
C&S Care Management, Inc.
Office:  281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, Texas  77095

Friday, August 31, 2012

Stretching Your Caregiving $$


Kitchen Table Talk

One in four American households, about 22.3 million, provides emotional or physical care for aging parents, spouses or siblings.  Seventy-five percent of caregivers are women.  Male caregivers are on the rise. 1 in 8 middle-aged Americans are both raising a child and caring for a parent.

As we care for our aging loved ones, we must open the discussion of their wants and needs regarding healthcare.   Caregivers of aging loved ones can begin with a kitchen table talk.  This is a way to open the door for Advance Care Planning.   Advance Care Planning promotes communication and provides peace of mind for the caregiver and the care receiver. 

Ideas on how to open the discussion with your loved one:

·         “I know you can manage on your own, but I’m here if you need me.  Have you thought about where you’d like to live if you needed more help?”

·         “Have you thought about what you would do in an emergency?”

·         “Could you give me the name and phone numbers of your (lawyer, accountant, or others that might help manage their affairs) in case there is an emergency?”

·         “Dad, since Mom pays the bills and you prepare the taxes, do you know each other’s filing systems?  I’d like to know, too, since Mom might need help if anything happens to you.”

·         “Mom, I have recently been looking over my important papers and made sure they are filed in a safe place.  Have you and Dad done this?”

·         “I wanted to talk with you about the future while you are both healthy.  You always took good care of me.  Someday it might be my turn to take care of you, and I want to know what’s important to you.”

Be prepared.  Below is a list of items to consider in a discussion about Advance Care Planning.  Seek an Elder Law Attorney for legal documents and advice.
1.      Names, addresses and phone numbers of doctors, dentist, in home care providers, lawyers, financial advisors, and banks
2.      Will, Living Will, Medical Power of Attorney, Durable Power of Attorney
3.      Keys to safe deposit box or mail box
4.      Insurance policies - life, health, auto etc.
5.      Social security, Medicare and Medicaid numbers
6.      Complete list of assets including savings, money market, stocks, bonds and any retirement accounts
7.      List of debts, including mortgages, personal loan and other liabilities
8.      List of all routine household bills
9.      Copies of income tax returns from the past three years 
10.   Government Resources – Medicare/Medicaid/VA
11.   Community Resources – Private In-Home Care
12.   Assistance Programs – Senior Adult Day Care
13.   Neighborhood Resources – Church Programs

Cindy Hartman, RN, BSN

C&S Care Management, Inc.
Office:  281-550-8444
15430 Ridge Park Drive
Houston, Texas  77095